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Old 01-12-2007, 11:30 AM
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Originally Posted by GO 4LO
I've seen the same mentality from all races wrt to others. I realize it may not be a popular view, but as long as we keep institutionalizing racism with 'minority-only' scholarships, alternate admissions criteria for different races at colleges, affirmative action, etc., it won't go away any time soon.

Friends should be judged on personalities, workers on their capabilities and work ethics, students on their abilities, and regardless, strangers should be respected. Nationality, color, weight, gender, etc. shouldn't play a role in judging the value of a person. Period.

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That's exactly right. And it's been happening ever since the so-called reconstruction period.
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i'm ukranian,and holy smokes did i ever get a hard time growing up when i was young , makes you stronger though, gave me bigger shoulders and helped me tune my sence of humour i guess although sometimes i just wanted to pop guys in the jaw for the jokes i used to hear, i had to learn how to laugh with them and start thinking faster and gettin witty comebacks. when my great gandparents first moved here they had to change our last name spelling from czornej cause people would overcharge them for seed, equipment and just about anything,and my dad was telling me that in school they would wack you with a yard stick if they caught you speaking ukraininan.
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I often joke about racism because racism is a joke.

That said, there is some validity to a lot of stereotypes because they help us deal with the world. From our childhood years, we are always forming stereotypes that we use the rest of our lives. Water is wet. Snakes aren't good. etc etc.

But not ALL snakes are bad or dangerous, are they? No, many are very helpful. Yet, we often teach our kids to avoid them because it's possible for them to get hurt by one, and they aren't mature enough to exercise judgment as to which are good and which are bad. Heck, many us adults still lack the knowledge as to which are good and bad, so we just lump all snakes together.

This is part of how we are wired as human beings. It's in our nature to pre-judge based on our life experiences.

Another example would be with gay people. Many would say that I stereo type gays, but the simple fact is that gay people often exhibit distinct identifying characteristics that simply can't be ignored--usually speech (lisps, word selections), manner of dress, hairstyle, whatever. Is this ALWAYS the case? No. It can't be, because "all generalizations are false" But it's correct enough times that it becomes a useful means of identifying people.

I'm delighted and honored when I meet someone who doesn't fit into any stereotype. I love it when I meet black "nerds" that love classical music, or white people that listen to R&B and Jazz, gays with no lisp or Cold Play CDs, or Hispanics that don't speak Spanish and are in the country legally-- all are people that don't fit in with many common stereotypes.

That said, I always found it amusing that so many people fit the stereotype. Where is it written that if you are a gay man you have to be effeminate and whiny? Or that if you are black you have so have shiny rims, big wheels, and a stereo with too much bass?

In the end, it's all just a humorous commentary on human nature how we are assimilated into various cultural groups, how and where we find acceptance, and how these different cultural groups interact.

So what's the difference between stereotyping/prejudging and real racism? Racism has to do with assigning WORTH, while stereotping is simply an observation of behavior patterns. There's nothing racist about saying that "hispanics in my area tend to put wheels on their cars that are tiny and stick way out." However, if you make the statement to ridicule someone---THEN that is racism. Admittedly, it's a fine line-- but a difference just the same.


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Old 01-12-2007, 02:40 PM
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Hey I'm a white guy with too much bass in my radio, Big 4 wheel drive truck with long cb antenna going on in the near future. Been trying to get my wife to let me put spinners on her durango but she keeps saying no. What sterotype do I fit in. In my Beetles cd player i have David Allen Coe, Waylon Jennings, Merle Haggard, and Hank Williams Jr. What sterotype do I fit in?
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I must admit when I was younger, (I am now 29 so were not talking ancient history here) you could have called me a racist. I didn't care for, or have anything nice to say about any other racial, linguistic or alternate life style group. Now that I matured and joined the real world I can truly see how wrong my previous attitude was. Living in Montreal you are exposed to just about every race on the planet on a daily basis. There are a few streets you can drive down and transition from Asian neighborhoods to African, Hispanic, Jewish, Arab, Italian, Greek, all in the space of a few city blocks. Being a service electrician I have had to work for and with all of these groups and there is no doubt in my mind that there are bad people in any group. I truly believe every one just wants a fair shot at a comfortable life style and a safe place to live. Looking back I am ashamed and embarrassed by my youthful behavior. I now try learn how to say "hello" in as many languages I can, it is amazing how much respect and pleasant attitude you can get from people when you show respect to them in the first place.

Sorry for the long post but hope someone might read it, change their attitude and see what a nicer place the world can be when you let go of preconceived ideals and truly get to know someone of another culture.
Old 01-13-2007, 02:32 AM
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I look at it this way if i cared what people thought about me because the way i looked my life would suck im tatooed from my wrists to my neck and ive herd it all from how long you been locked up to he is just hiding his track marks never been prison and i dont do drugs i go to work everyday have 9year old son and a great wife if i dwelled on what people thought of me i would be in prison by now people are so down with there lifes they have to find somthing wrong with anybody and it dont make a differance what color race you are there life sucks so it makes there day to **** you off
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Zappa

Frank Zappa - Trouble Every Day Lyrics

Well I'm about to get sick

From watchin' my TV

Been checkin' out the news

Until my eyeballs fail to see

I mean to say that every day

Is just another rotten mess

And when it's gonna change, my friend

Is anybody's guess



So I'm watchin' and I'm waitin'

Hopin' for the best

Even think I'll go to prayin'

Every time I hear 'em sayin'

That there's no way to delay

That trouble comin' every day

No way to delay

That trouble comin' every day



Wednesday I watched the riot . . .

Seen the cops out on the street

Watched 'em throwin' rocks and stuff

And chokin' in the heat

Listened to reports

About the whisky passin' 'round

Seen the smoke and fire

And the market burnin' down

Watched while everybody

On his street would take a turn

To stomp and smash and bash and crash

And slash and bust and burn



And I'm watchin' and I'm waitin'

Hopin' for the best

Even think I'll go to prayin'

Every time I hear 'em sayin'

That there's no way to delay

That trouble comin' every day

No way to delay

That trouble comin' every day



Well, you can cool it,

You can heat it . . .

'Cause, baby, I don't need it . . .

Take your TV tube and eat it

'N all that phony stuff on sports

'N all the unconfirmed reports

You know I watched that rotten box

Until my head begin to hurt

From checkin' out the way

The newsman say they get the dirt

Before the guys on channel so-and-so



And further they assert

That any show they'll interrupt

To bring you news if it comes up

They say that if the place blows up

They will be the first to tell,

Because the boys they got downtown

Are workin' hard and doin' swell,

And if anybody gets the news

Before it hits the street,

They say that no one blabs it faster

Their coverage can't be beat



And if another woman driver

Gets machine-gunned from her seat

They'll send some joker with a brownie

And you'll see it all complete



So I'm watchin' and I'm waitin'

Hopin' for the best

Even think I'll go to prayin'

Every time I hear 'em sayin'

That there's no way to delay

That trouble comin' every day

No way to delay

That trouble comin' every day



Hey, you know something people?

I'm not black

But there's a whole lots a times

I wish I could say I'm not white



Well, I seen the fires burnin'

And the local people turnin'

On the merchants and the shops

Who used to sell their brooms and mops

And every other household item

Watched the mob just turn and bite 'em

And they say it served 'em right

Because a few of them are white,

And it's the same across the nation

Black and white discrimination

Yellin' "You can't understand me!"

'N all that other jazz they hand me

In the papers and TV and

All that mass stupidity

That seems to grow more every day

Each time you hear some nitwit say

He wants to go and do you in

Because the color of your skin

Just don't appeal to him

(No matter if it's black or white)

Because he's out for blood tonight



You know we got to sit around at home

And watch this thing begin

But I bet there won't be many live

To see it really end

'Cause the fire in the street

Ain't like the fire in the heart

And in the eyes of all these people

Don't you know that this could start

On any street in any town

In any state if any clown

Decides that now's the time to fight

For some ideal he thinks is right

And if a million more agree

There ain't no Great Society

As it applies to you and me

Our country isn't free

And the law refuses to see

If all that you can ever be

Is just a lousy janitor

Unless your uncle owns a store

You know that five in every four

Just won't amount to nothin' more

Gonna watch the rats go across the floor

And make up songs about being poor



Blow your harmonica, son!
Old 01-13-2007, 02:44 AM
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Originally Posted by AkTallPaul
Frank Zappa - Trouble Every Day Lyrics

Well I'm about to get sick

From watchin' my TV

Been checkin' out the news

Until my eyeballs fail to see

I mean to say that every day

Is just another rotten mess

And when it's gonna change, my friend

Is anybody's guess



So I'm watchin' and I'm waitin'

Hopin' for the best

Even think I'll go to prayin'

Every time I hear 'em sayin'

That there's no way to delay

That trouble comin' every day

No way to delay

That trouble comin' every day



Wednesday I watched the riot . . .

Seen the cops out on the street

Watched 'em throwin' rocks and stuff

And chokin' in the heat

Listened to reports

About the whisky passin' 'round

Seen the smoke and fire

And the market burnin' down

Watched while everybody

On his street would take a turn

To stomp and smash and bash and crash

And slash and bust and burn



And I'm watchin' and I'm waitin'

Hopin' for the best

Even think I'll go to prayin'

Every time I hear 'em sayin'

That there's no way to delay

That trouble comin' every day

No way to delay

That trouble comin' every day



Well, you can cool it,

You can heat it . . .

'Cause, baby, I don't need it . . .

Take your TV tube and eat it

'N all that phony stuff on sports

'N all the unconfirmed reports

You know I watched that rotten box

Until my head begin to hurt

From checkin' out the way

The newsman say they get the dirt

Before the guys on channel so-and-so



And further they assert

That any show they'll interrupt

To bring you news if it comes up

They say that if the place blows up

They will be the first to tell,

Because the boys they got downtown

Are workin' hard and doin' swell,

And if anybody gets the news

Before it hits the street,

They say that no one blabs it faster

Their coverage can't be beat



And if another woman driver

Gets machine-gunned from her seat

They'll send some joker with a brownie

And you'll see it all complete



So I'm watchin' and I'm waitin'

Hopin' for the best

Even think I'll go to prayin'

Every time I hear 'em sayin'

That there's no way to delay

That trouble comin' every day

No way to delay

That trouble comin' every day



Hey, you know something people?

I'm not black

But there's a whole lots a times

I wish I could say I'm not white



Well, I seen the fires burnin'

And the local people turnin'

On the merchants and the shops

Who used to sell their brooms and mops

And every other household item

Watched the mob just turn and bite 'em

And they say it served 'em right

Because a few of them are white,

And it's the same across the nation

Black and white discrimination

Yellin' "You can't understand me!"

'N all that other jazz they hand me

In the papers and TV and

All that mass stupidity

That seems to grow more every day

Each time you hear some nitwit say

He wants to go and do you in

Because the color of your skin

Just don't appeal to him

(No matter if it's black or white)

Because he's out for blood tonight



You know we got to sit around at home

And watch this thing begin

But I bet there won't be many live

To see it really end

'Cause the fire in the street

Ain't like the fire in the heart

And in the eyes of all these people

Don't you know that this could start

On any street in any town

In any state if any clown

Decides that now's the time to fight

For some ideal he thinks is right

And if a million more agree

There ain't no Great Society

As it applies to you and me

Our country isn't free

And the law refuses to see

If all that you can ever be

Is just a lousy janitor

Unless your uncle owns a store

You know that five in every four

Just won't amount to nothin' more

Gonna watch the rats go across the floor

And make up songs about being poor



Blow your harmonica, son!
you are the typing master
Old 01-13-2007, 08:13 PM
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Originally Posted by 93 dually
I look at it this way if i cared what people thought about me because the way i looked my life would suck im tatooed from my wrists to my neck and ive herd it all from how long you been locked up to he is just hiding his track marks never been prison and i dont do drugs i go to work everyday have 9year old son and a great wife if i dwelled on what people thought of me i would be in prison by now people are so down with there lifes they have to find somthing wrong with anybody and it dont make a differance what color race you are there life sucks so it makes there day to **** you off
yeah, that's another thing, I'm also tattooed from my shoulders to my wrists! Old school/traditional type stuff with some japanese style/sailor jerry too!
Old 01-13-2007, 09:56 PM
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I think this actually makes you deeper seated and more respected within the diesel community. You came in with the patience and tolerance for those who wouldn't accept you. You also came here with the courage to show your passion for the almighty diesel within a prodominately white community. I salute you and hope all fellow diesel enthusiasts will try to attract more diversity into this family. Wasn't the diesel a minority in the performance sector at one time? Anyone can see the beauty in raw power and black smoke.
Old 01-15-2007, 10:06 AM
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First of all, desertram800, thanks for your service! Being former USMC, I will concede it to be fact, the MC is a dept. of the Navy..... but without a doubt, it's the MEN's Dept. I spent almost 18 of my 24 + yrs in the MC in V. Bch.

I think HOHN had a very intelligent post and I'll just dovetail on to what he already correctly said. Some may say that stereotyping is a bad thing or it is not the politically correct thing to do. I don't believe stereotyping equates to racism and like HOHN suggested, stereotyping goes wrong when a person's worth is determined based on the attitude toward the stereotype.

Like some have already suggested, we all fall within a particular stereotype whether it's due to our nationality, region of the world we hail from, religious group we choose to belong to, clubs we choose to belong to, sexual preferences and even color of hair (are not blondes stereotyped? lol). Being Polish, I grew up hearing all the typical Polock jokes because of the stereotype that Poles' are the brightest bulbs on the trees..... sometimes I don't think I've dispelled that stereotype. When a person joins a certain group (club, religious, sexual, etc.) it's because he/she wants to be indentified with those individuals and their values. I think most of us can, and do, have fun with stereotyping because we choose not to assign worth to a person based on the stereotype.

Without a doubt, certain ethnic groups have been wrongly discriminated against based solely on their ethnicity. I think discrimination is a form of mental abuse (it's a form of bullying) and the people who do this have evil in their hearts. So discrimination will only go away, unfortunately, when the heart of every man is changed. I'm not a fan at all of quotas; I believe quotas promote discrimination because it doesn't value an individual based on character and/or proficiency.

Like others have said, I'll treat anyone like I want to be treated..... as a human being created equal in the eyes of God.

BTW, based on the bulk of these posts, I think I'm in the right crowd I want to be identified as.
Old 01-15-2007, 10:46 AM
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Duuude; you can't quote a 100 line double-spaced post with 1 line of reply... Come on...
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I don't care as long as you are paying your own way and keep driving a Dodge!!
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i dont know why people think insults are funny. Southerners are insulted by Northerners & visa versa,,i dont think its racism that makes people do these things, i dont believe you can hate someone without knowing them. it their way of entertaining..just ignore them.
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Hey Whipt.....
Want me to bring my velcro gloves and knee high rubber boots???? (We need a dualing banjo's smilies also!!) BAAAAAAAHHHHHHH!!!

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